Question for you...

Got up really early this morning, don't know why I can't sleep anymore. Question to all my friends out there: Why do you like/dislike me as a friend?

I mean, there must be a reason to still wanna hang out/talk with me, right? And if you think otherwise, why?

I just wanna know, so start by being frank! :) And I promise no hard feelings will be taken.

Now now, don't walk away from this site...

Bright and sunny saturday

Had a really nice and eventful saturday, surrounded by friends. Feels like it has been a long time since I ever felt this way. Slept in this morning, woke up and went driving range with Jinn Ling. I think this is the longest 50 balls that I ever hit, coz we ended up spending 1.5 hours at the range, chatting more than hitting balls. Then, we went to St Kilda for lunch coz the place we wanted to go to at Balaclava was too packed, there was a waiting list of half an hour!! Oh well, better luck next time I hope. Also had gelati and we went to the beach side, did some people watching. LOL, checking out everyone, not just boys. I'm at the beach side again! Starting to like the fact that I'm in Melbourne and I can go to the beach side as often as I want without worrying about getting sweaty and the melting feeling. Was indeed a wonderful day out there...so relaxing!




Then after, also met up with Lia and Mark for Koko Black late in the arvo. So much chatting, gossiping today. The city is crowded with kids, people, and Xmas preparation. 5 weeks to Xmas, not that it means much to me but it's always nice to see the streets alive than not. This year's Xmas will be somewhat different, spending it with my best friends in Sydney. It's always nice hanging out with friends. Thought I'll be alone for dinner tonight coz I didn't have any plans, which I don't mind really, had been a long day. Was glad to receive a phone call from Shen to pull me out for dinner. We chatted a lot about our work stuffs, was a good venting session, definitely. I'm glad that I have an old friend in my work place, always someone to count on, seek advise from and someone that I can let out to :)

Weather does play a part in everyday's mood, doesn't it? Was so cloudy the last few days and my mood was too, but today, the sun was out and I just felt much better! Something funny that I notice too, that when times are hard and down, the weather tends to be the same too, just like the entire last week was gloomy and windy, cold..but now that everything has got better and happier, the sun is out again! :) Is there some correlation between my heart feelings with the weather? Something to investigate and observe...maybe you can tell me why.

Journey

Hmm...今天写blog的灵感很多。

When you fall and get hurt, don't sit and cry. Stand up and walk forward again, have your chin's up coz tomorrow's a better day!

爱到底是什么？

爱到底是什么？父爱，母爱，友爱，博爱，恋爱...不同的爱。爱有它一定的定义吗？

爱情是一种感觉，出发于心里的感觉。爱情可以理智的吗？爱情有公平的吗？爱情有说是不自私的吗？如果有人可以把爱情model成一个方程式，那我觉得他either成为世界上最富有的人，或是最愚蠢的人。因为我觉得爱情是没有一个固定的方程式。如果两个人相爱，而因为四周的人的反意不能在一起，是一件很可惜得事。当然，幸福的爱就希望得到四周的人的认同。Hmm...好像有点自我矛盾！爱情到底是两个人的事，还是不够的呢？还是要得到其他人的批同？

今天我觉得我有长了一智。我终于明白，领悟到，爱一个人，不一定要拥有他，霸占他，而是希望他过的好，过的幸福，过的快乐。我对我看爱情的perspective, 有点意外。从来没有想到我会有这样的领悟，想法。这几天里发生的事情，我从中得益不少。虽然是个很难忘的经验，很伤痛，可是我感觉到我有长大了。就当作是我生命中的一个小插曲。我没有后悔，没有责怪任何人，只因我知道，it's all part of life and experience, and life is a big learning process. 我对我的潇洒感到新奇。世界每一天在转动，马路上每一天都有车人来来往往，生活一样要走下去。不开心是一天，开心又是一天，何不开开心心的过每一天呢？

Life goes on... :-)

To all my friends out there

Came across this song when I woke up this morning. I would like to share it with all my friends out there. No matter where you are or what you are doing, remember that you've got a friend in me.

朋友，就是有难同当，有福同享! 别不好意思啦！ :-)

You've got a friend - Carole King

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=df0X2jI4bVM&mode=related&search=

My Fav songs for this week....

Paolo Nutini - Last Request
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGyErt9JvKI

Stacie Orrico - I'm Not Missing You
http://tkokweng.imeem.com/music/2owdwE2r/im_not_missing_you/

Anyone has any nice songs to recommend to me?